It’s mandatory for those in the kingdom of God to walk circumspectly not as fool but as wise. But most times in some families named after the kingdom, reverse is the case. Many elects walks presumptuously to be wise in their own sight but proved to be foolish before the Lord. Many ways seem right to them but the end is destruction. We are to be very vigilant and watchful in the way we administer family issues. It’s the wisdom of God.Jesus is the wisdom of God. Jesus must be known to the couples in the family and must be allowed to take His place in the family. He must be acknowledged and enthroned in the family and worship as the Lord.. So, the wisdom of God in the family is in living the life of Jesus, being formed in their hearts.It is the wisdom of God in the family for the couples to be wise and matured. God is delighted to see His children being wise. Everyone in the family must walk wisely, act wisely, do all things in the family wisely mirroring at the word of God to keep in every aspect in the family, for a house is built by the wisdom. Despite the anointing upon David as a King by Samuel the man of God, David walked wisely in the palace with Saul and everyone there. So, don’t be deceived as to think of things to go on smoothly in your family because God has hand in your relationship. Please be informed, the wisdom of God is for you to be matured and act wisely to allow peace and fellowship with God and your family to stand strong by upholding His words and commandments.It’s in the wisdom of God in the family to rely and trust in the Lord for whatever that happens. In the family some couples trusted in chariots, some in horses, they trusted in the arm of flesh but for those of the wisdom of God trusted in the name of the Lord. The one, you rely upon or trust in your family, is the one controlling you and your family. If you rely on your parents, or uncle or friends, they will be the one to dictate what happens in your family. If challenges come they will be the first to run to instead of God. King Asa relied on God when the enemy surrounded him and prayed to God and God delivered him and his people but in another time he acted foolishly when the war surrounded him and sought help from the king of Syrian which displeased God. Trust God for any need in the family and don’t rely on the arm of flesh it’s the wisdom of God in the family. If God cannot save, who else will save. Be warned!It’s in the wisdom of God in the family to know the will of God for their family. Some things are contrary to the will of God for some families but accepted it being fool for serving the Lord. What kill a family is the ignorance of the knowledge of the will of God for them, while serving the Lord.They even rejected some happenings that were in line with God’s will because of their ignorance It’s the wisdom of God in the family to make a choice on whom to serve, God or Mammon. Lord of Mammon has done its worse in the family by tearing down the family. What control some family is the love of money from either of the couples or both, spring forth a lot of evil devices in the family. They thought they were wise but they were fool, thinking that money answer all things but He who answer all things is God. In some family money is more powerful than even devil himself, it has become their determinant and existence. Money is good in the family as a servant not as lord, let learn in the family how money can follow us, taking dominion over money and serve God as the Lord in the family, it’s the wisdom of God.It’s in the wisdom of God to ask God what is needed in the family. Many couples grumble and complain but never ask God of their needs. It’s written, ask and ye shall receive. If God is true, if you have not received it is because you have not asked or you asked amiss. Stop walking after the flesh to fulfill your desires, it is foolishness before God. God told David after the act of his adultary with Beersheba that if he had asked him more wives he would have given him instead of commiting such offense which indirectly affected his family.It’s the wisdom of God to follow the pattern set up for the position of authority in the family. Many couples override this with the campaign going around about the equality syndrome. It’s orchestrated by the devil. In every family husband is to submit to Jesus as the Lord, wife is to submit to the her husband as the lord, even Sarah called Abraham her lord, children to submit to their parents. This is the order of authority in the family. Besides this level of authority, Jesus still relates with us as friends so, it doesn’t cut short the husband and wife with their children relating as friends but when come to decision making in the family, everyone must assume his or her position for every one will give account to the Master. It’s the wisdom of God in the family.There’s prosperity in the family if everyone allows to keep the wisdom of God in the family. It’s like the ark of covenant of God in the house of Obed edom. God is delighted to see His purpose come to pass in our family as we walk and acted wisely in our family.
Praise God! Amen